In life nothing is ever planned and whatever little is ...Or can be gets disarray anyways life then prima facie is best when and as it comes
Looming large on the face of tomorrow is the perspiration of the concocted present...the anxiety of an angst ridden past and of course the mortality to be prone to error.
An intelligent person once said
" There are only 3 events in a man's life
BIRTH
LIFE
& DEATH
He's not conscious of being born....He dies in pain ; And he forgets to live...! "

Change is the only constant in life and notwithstanding our gratifications to it , it does take place.So best accept it.......
Things may not always be the way we want them to be ...so much so that it may not even remotely resemble what and as or the way we pictured for ourselves but then that in no way means that it can't get any better... and again I come back to acceptance...The key word .A lot many times we see ourselves trying to fit ourselves in someone else's shoes when we very well know and understand that really means defeat to the very purpose of our own self existence...
Analyzing the reasons or possible causes the only rationale so to speak that emerges is that we consider ourselves inferior to others or perhaps the other way round consider others better than us or maybe even think ourselves incompatible of accommodating and accepting a change when all it takes is Acceptance.

Its not something out of the ordinary to do but what makes it sound unrealistic is the fact that we've always been born and brought up in a society that believes it utmost necessary to look down upon yourself and think great of others so that when u make it big , it really looks big ......Whatever I say.
Amongst a labored of emotions and cobwebs of analogies that the people around us carry our own pure identity goes for a ...Toss
But even then its all about the choice ... A choice that all of us have but none of us exercise or perhaps aren't even ready to believe exists...
Morpheus in the MATRIX says " Choice ......Is an illusion " which though contradictory to my belief does holds true in its own regard...
DESTINY as some people say it is all about blaming or more pragmatically speaking endorsing all our misfortunes to a higher invisible force that no one has seen of felt but are ready to curse should anything out of the ordinary occur...
In the simplest of words Luck,Destiny,Fate are all scapegoats of our actions that we are not ready to account for...
But then again that's my view ... You're not supposed to accept any of the views if u don't find any green in it...
And it doesn't make any difference to me...Should you or should you not find paucity in it ... I Don't mind, Why should I ???

I have an opinion , you have yours ... As long as we respect each others opinions irrespective of the fact that they may not be same we are in WIN-WIN situation...And we're in acute dearth of such people who can actually proceed and yet respect and be happy about others progress...



And that's what life's all about....Style of discourse ....Style of disclosure...!!!